Key's Keys-You're not stuck, you're BECOMING- MAY 17th, 2025

***I acknowledge that I work, play, dance, heal and create this newsletter on the unceded territory of the Syilx Okanagan Peoples***

*this newsletter was written and edited by a human, not AI*

Hello, Beautiful Soul!

Last week’s post about the mother wound was long and intense, so to balance things out I’ll make this one short and sweet.

If you are feeling like you’re in the middle of a strange pause, or like all momentum has stopped in your life and you are being asked to just ‘be’, without clarity, future vision or path and purpose, know that you are right in the middle of a sacred pause that is your BECOMING.

I feel like many of us are in a void of sorts…I am calling this time the ‘great weave’. We may not be feeling like our old selves, and we have not yet formed who we are becoming. There is this message that I keep receiving that I am not to move forward. I am not to do anything except just pause, and BE.

What we may have pushed through before is no longer possible to push through. We may get a hard stop, or a no. Anything performative, that leads us away of authentically showing up in life is also nearly impossible to execute. We may feel deep desire to take action, make progress, or get clarity on our future but none of those things are available to us right now. This can be immensely frustrating, but it has a purpose.

The ‘great weave’ is a period of time where we are weaving both our former selves and our future selves together. We are being born into a new way of showing up in the World. This time of weaving is a true testament to whether or not we can trust not only ourselves, but can we trust the entire process that is unfolding.

Nothing will happen until we have a solid foundation of evolution from the inside out. We can no longer look outside of ourselves to direct our choices. To do this, we have to surrender to the fact that our greatest potential cannot be met until we release the identification with what we have been in the past. Releasing this attachment frees up the space and energy to move forward. Until we do this, until we drop the masks and the identities of who we think we are, we are bound within the sacred pause, or what can feel like limbo. We know something is approaching, but we can’t quite track it or place it. We cycle in and out of the spiritual coding coming in that we must wait, trust, and allow the process to unfold in its own time. We must relinquish control.

KEY’S KEY

The Great Weave is a sacred, pivotal time in our evolution. It is the period of time when we are experiencing both who we have been and who we are becoming simultaneously. If we resist the intuitive instruction to allow this merging and do not surrender to the stillness that we are being asked to make friends with, we can end up looping over and over again in the old structures of busyness and distraction. We are being called into a completely new way of being- a time where within the stillness grows the deep gift of becoming whole. If this resonates with you- know that there is nowhere else to go but here. Take note if you are functioning from an all or nothing perspective, and recognize that although things are changing dramatically beneath the surface of your awareness, you also do not have to abandon everything that was as you wait for what will be coming in.

Use discretion, cherry pick what still holds energetic integrity for you and allow that to stay and evolve alongside yourself. Let go of the rest with grace and TRUST that this period of not knowing is ripe with potential- but it requires experiencing what you have never granted yourself with and that is time without expectation. You are being invited to learn how to truly trust yourself and the Universe as you wait without insight, clarity, or direction. You can rest assured that great expansion is happening due to the unfamiliarity of this process- what is coming is brand new and you are not meant to know what your next step is. The knowledge you seek will come when you are ready to truly trust yourself. Work on this trust relationship with yourself and the worthiness that comes with it, and the clarity, path, and next steps will reveal themselves to you- like magic. Divine timing always works in your favour. Have patience. You are becoming more that you ever dreamt possible.

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Here is a beautiful conversation I had with the amazing Seryna Myers on her podcast “The Unshakeable Self”.

Dissolving Duality and Letting Go of Labels: Unshakeable Self-Leadership with Keyla Ohs

What if the version of you you’ve been trying to perfect was never the real you at all? In this fierce and grounding conversation, Seryna sits down with awakening guide and multidimensional space holder Keyla Ohs to explore what it truly means to lead yourself from wholeness and not performance. Together, they talk about the unraveling of identity, the courage to evolve in public, and how releasing duality creates space for self-leadership rooted in love. Keyla shares her journey from world-class athlete to shamanic teacher, from control to surrender, and from externally defined worth to embodied truth. Her medicine isn’t about having all the answers. It’s about remembering who you are beneath the labels, roles, and expectations you’ve outgrown.  

This Episode Is Perfect For You If...

You’re navigating an identity shift and feel unsure who you are without the roles you’ve outgrown

You’re ready to lead yourself with clarity instead of performing for approval

You’ve felt the pull to evolve publicly but fear how others will perceive your changes

You’ve struggled to trust your intuition in moments of discomfort or duality

You’re seeking spiritual community that honours both truth and accountability  

"It's not safe to be in a circle where you're not held accountable for your impact on the rest of the web." — Keyla Ohs  

In This Episode (02:54) – From athlete to awakening guide: Keyla’s journey through perfectionism, duality, and discipline (08:19) – What dissolving duality really looks like and how safety changes the way we receive truth (16:47) – The unraveling of identity, public pivots, and being unshakably yourself (24:15) – Discernment, discomfort, and knowing whether fear is wisdom or protection (32:06) – Losing clients, evolving your medicine, and what non-attachment in business looks like (41:25) – The web of spiritual community, being held, and learning when not to hold (52:53) – How to start your journey toward unshakable self-leadership from a place of love and worth  

"If you can detach and separate the meaning of discomfort and not align it with fear, and actually get comfortable being uncomfortable, you are going to be able to get to where you feel you are meant to be." — Keyla Ohs

PODCAST LINK HERE:

Here are the things that have been helping me on my path this week:

AN INCREDIBLY UPLIFTING INVENTION THAT COULD TRANSFORM THE WORLD

If we save the trees, we save our environment and the quality of our air. There may be nothing more revolutionary than this:

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HEALING HAPPENS IN THE PRESENT MOMENT

I found this so relevant as I go through ‘The Weave’… I speak about above. Ram Dass explains how the present moment is the only moment available to us for healing:

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NEVER STOP ASKING QUESTIONS

This post blew my mind- no one seems to talk publicly about the cycles our planet has gone through that most of us have simply never hear of. Not just that, this is the most beautiful, passionate, and informative post about our planet I have ever come across and I can’t stop listening to it.

PLEASE WATCH:

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QUOTE I’M PODERING

“The people who are supernaturally gifted have earned it. The more light a person possesses, the more darkness they have faced. Nothing is free.”

~@kenzie

Finding value in this newsletter? Here is a link to check out the Key’s Keys Archives for past newsletters for more support on your spiritual path:

UPCOMING FREE EVENTS

COMMUNITY GUIDED MEDITATION

May 24th- 10 am pst

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LIGHT LANGUAGE HEALING TRANSMISSION

May 31- 10 am PST

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NEW OFFERING!

MID WEEK MINDFULNESS- Wed, May 21st, 7 pm pst

An IN PERSON and ONLINE event!

This is a new offering designed to create community so we can sit in meditation together, fostering connection and healing through the like minded perspective that healing happens when we are held in sacred space. Our first one was SOOOO beautiful and nourishing. Our next wave of healing on this planet will happen in community.

Whether you are on a healing journey, just starting a meditation practise, or are a well seasoned meditator, this community event will be an opportunity to sit quietly together and practise presence. For those new to meditation, I will give an easy suggestion on where to begin.

Format: I will guide us in for about 5 min, then we will sit in meditation together for 30 min, and afterwards I will read a short passage from a spiritual book to provide guidance and insight (Pema Chodron and Breanna Weist). We will end with a short round circle (optional) before we close the practise.

THIS IS AN IN PERSON AND ONLINE EVENT!

PLEASE REGISTER VIA THIS ZOOM LINK WHETHER YOU WISH TO JOIN IN PERSON OR ONLINE.

ADDRESS FOR IN PERSON ATTENDANCE:

THE LIGHT TEMPLE

1138 GREGORY ROAD, WEST KELOWNA

DOORS OPEN AT 6:45 PM BOTH IN PERSON AND VIA ZOOM

This is a free event, if you wish to make a donation that is welcome too.

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Thank you for being in this community- I am so grateful for you and your incredible Light.